We talk a lot about the emotions (happy and sad) that go into placing a child for adoption. For many the relinquishment is a bittersweet moment. It is the part of the legal process when birthparents relinquish their legal rights as parents to the adoptive parent(s) they chose. This process is emotional and birthparents will talk extensively with their counselors about it. All the counselors at IAC are sensitive to the process and want to make sure each birthparent takes the time they need to understand the permanent decision they make when placing a child for adoption.
Each state handles this moment differently. Most states require that birthparents meet at least twice in person with a social worker. In the first visit you and your social worker will talk about and review the documents you will sign to relinquish your rights. If you have any questions and/or do not understand what the documents mean this meeting is a good time to pepper your social worker with questions and get answers.
The second meeting will happen after the baby is born. In some states this meeting happens in the hospital and in others, it will happen after you are discharged from the hospital. In both situations, your social worker will ask you if you understand the documents and if you would like to sign the documents. If you are not ready, use this time to talk about your emotions and/or clarify any questions you have about signing the documents.
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